I choose to not "friend" every breathing human I encounter. I don't consider my friend list to be an ego-stroking popularity tally; I choose who I friend based on whether I'd *gasp* actually talk with them on the phone. Similarly, I only post on my Facebook page things that I would not be embarrassed to have posted in the hallway at church.
I always thought this meant I was careful with the personal information I put out in cyberspace, where nothing really ever goes away. I had no idea it meant I was an antisocial paranoid individual who is in desperate need of therapy.
Lol, same idea with me. I know everyone of my facebook friends personally-some may be far away right now, but it's nice to have an outlet to keep up with them, especially as some are several hours time distance away. Mostly, the people I communicate the most with though are friends from my old high school and university-the people that I have been closest with. Occasionally, it becomes a help in doing assignments together to pool ideas and what-not. I do not have many of my colleagues as facebook friends, and I don't even keep my dad as a facebook friend...
But I'm in my early 20's, so I was pretty much the 'target' group-which I think means that we are actually the most responsible. It's those who are younger (early teens and even younger who shouldn't even be on) and those who are older (which is weird, but seems to be true) that appear to be the strangest and most excessive in their posting. Also, those who have less education seem to post more inappropriately.
In a society where oversharing has become an epidemic, it seems that those who don't like to share their every thoughts/activities may be displaying signs of mental illness, suggest researchers. Really? I didn't know that keeping some things private make you a candidate for the looney bin. First, there were the studies that said sharing pictures of vacations and your oh so fabulous life makes others jealous, at best, and depressed at worse (I'm paraphrasing here), and now this. I guess since we're all putting it out there, psychiatrists' coaches are empty so they have to formulate a new way to stay relevant. I don't know if I should laugh or be shaking my head in disgust.
Do both. Laugh at those who feel the need to post every mundane detail of their life and shake your head in disgust for the same reason.
I unfriended one guy because of constant posts like this: On my way to restaurant. Just arrived at restaurant. Awesome menu at restaurant. Just ordered drinks. Just ordered appetizers. Appetizers arrived (pic included). Entree just arrived (pic included). Ordered bottle of wine. Wine arrived, good wine. Dessert arrived (pic included). Comment on dinner & service. Now leaving restaurant. And so on and so on.
Unfortunately, I couldn't laugh at this, just shook my head and clicked "Unfriend".
I do have to wonder what a psychologist would say about my FB page. If I post anything, it's a poem, a quote, share a picture that I think is funny, etc. With incredibly rare exception do I post anything about myself. I use it mostly to keep in contact with friends and make new ones.
great now your right to bear arms will be based on how many friends you have on Facebook or whether you do not want strangers to see your personal information!!!!!
I choose to not "friend" every breathing human I encounter. I don't consider my friend list to be an ego-stroking popularity tally; I choose who I friend based on whether I'd *gasp* actually talk with them on the phone. Similarly, I only post on my Facebook page things that I would not be embarrassed to have posted in the hallway at church.
I always thought this meant I was careful with the personal information I put out in cyberspace, where nothing really ever goes away. I had no idea it meant I was an antisocial paranoid individual who is in desperate need of therapy.
Lol, same idea with me. I know everyone of my facebook friends personally-some may be far away right now, but it's nice to have an outlet to keep up with them, especially as some are several hours time distance away. Mostly, the people I communicate the most with though are friends from my old high school and university-the people that I have been closest with. Occasionally, it becomes a help in doing assignments together to pool ideas and what-not. I do not have many of my colleagues as facebook friends, and I don't even keep my dad as a facebook friend...
But I'm in my early 20's, so I was pretty much the 'target' group-which I think means that we are actually the most responsible. It's those who are younger (early teens and even younger who shouldn't even be on) and those who are older (which is weird, but seems to be true) that appear to be the strangest and most excessive in their posting. Also, those who have less education seem to post more inappropriately.
Yet another reason not to have a Facebook page: I don't need people psychologically profiling me for any reason.
LOL Maybe I'm paranoid.
It's not paranoia if people are REALLY out to get you.
This is the stupidest article that I ever read!
Nan, I agree with you completely. Ridiculous waste of space.
In a society where oversharing has become an epidemic, it seems that those who don't like to share their every thoughts/activities may be displaying signs of mental illness, suggest researchers. Really? I didn't know that keeping some things private make you a candidate for the looney bin.
First, there were the studies that said sharing pictures of vacations and your oh so fabulous life makes others jealous, at best, and depressed at worse (I'm paraphrasing here), and now this.
I guess since we're all putting it out there, psychiatrists' coaches are empty so they have to formulate a new way to stay relevant. I don't know if I should laugh or be shaking my head in disgust.
WTH?
Do both. Laugh at those who feel the need to post every mundane detail of their life and shake your head in disgust for the same reason.
I unfriended one guy because of constant posts like this: On my way to restaurant. Just arrived at restaurant. Awesome menu at restaurant. Just ordered drinks. Just ordered appetizers. Appetizers arrived (pic included). Entree just arrived (pic included). Ordered bottle of wine. Wine arrived, good wine. Dessert arrived (pic included). Comment on dinner & service. Now leaving restaurant. And so on and so on.
Unfortunately, I couldn't laugh at this, just shook my head and clicked "Unfriend".
I do have to wonder what a psychologist would say about my FB page. If I post anything, it's a poem, a quote, share a picture that I think is funny, etc. With incredibly rare exception do I post anything about myself. I use it mostly to keep in contact with friends and make new ones.
great now your right to bear arms will be based on how many friends you have on Facebook or whether you do not want strangers to see your personal information!!!!!