Even 5 year olds know to protect their reputation

Tia Ghose
LiveScience
Even 5-year-olds know to protect their reps. Children are more generous when they know their actions will be seen, according to a new study.

The findings, published Oct. 31 in the journal PLoS One, suggest that even kindergarteners have learned to play the social game and strategize ways to burnish their reputation. 

"Much like the patterns of charity we see in adults, donation tendencies in children appear to be driven by the amount of information available to others about their actions — for both adults and children, the more others know about their actions, the more likely they are to act generously," said study co-author and Yale University researcher Kristin Lyn Leimgruber in a statement.

Leimgruber's team gave 5-year-olds stickers and told them they could share one to four of them with another child of the same age. Some of the children could see their sharing partner, while others were hidden from view.

The team found that the children were stingier when the other youngster was hidden from them. The kids also hoarded more loot when they had to give stickers in an opaque box rather than a transparent one that showed what they were giving.

Overall, the kindergarteners were pretty selfish : Only those children who saw their partners and gave their stickers in a clear box consistently donated the maximum of four stickers.

Interestingly, past studies showed children were more generous than the current study.

"Previous studies that observe high levels of generosity may have inadvertently included the same audience and transparency cues," that motivate kids to share, the researchers wrote in the journal article.

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Re: the past studies showing children in similar experiments in the past being more generous than in this study; perhaps their behavior is modeled after their elders', regardless of time, & reflects as much as the adults' behavior & attitudes as it does the childrens'.

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Reply#4 - Thu Nov 1, 2012 10:26 AM EDT

Very true, my fiance is a kindergarten teacher and notice the behavior is far better when they know she have eyes on them rather then stepping out briefly. this also to be true for parents that monitor their children. Parents who monitor their children using Phone Sheriff have had better behavior out of them then those not using monitoring software. I find that Phone sheriff works great for parents that wants to know what their kids are doing with or with out knowing. Great article.

    Reply#5 - Fri Nov 9, 2012 12:51 PM EST

    No WAY, 5 year olds are pretty selfish? I have observed this behavior first hand, with my 5 year old daughter. I am very aware that she is much more generous when we are present and paying attention, because if/when she doesn't share nicely, we correct her.

    "Sharing is caring" is what her pre-K teachers say to them. We show her examples of when we share with her and ask how happy that has made her. Then we tell her SHE can make someone else happy by doing the same thing. Isn't it more fun to enjoy a toy/game/treat with someone else?

      Reply#6 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 1:06 PM EST
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